Closure

Since I moved to AZ I have been in contact with my 2nd ex. I tried to be a friend and be understanding but he is so unhealthy emotionally, mentally, physically, and spiritually. He loves remaining in his life with alcohol as his god. After some real in depth soul searching I found that I needed so desperately to clean up all the things that kept me bound in my unhealthy boundaries. So, I made a phone call leaving a voice mail that he stop calling and that even if he does change his ways that I cannot have him in my life. I cannot even be a friend. He seems to suck the life right out of people like me. Someone that wants to help and fix things. To secure that he will not contact me ever again I sent an email to his mother so that she will understand my position and that he will have no room in my heart or life. I have felt such a burden lifted off of me and I am really happy with my decision. So far I have not heard from him especially the drunk calls that he would do. I am so glad that the Lord has led me to this. I cannot wait to see all the other changes that will take place in my life. I pray that the Lord will give me the strength to continue on in this cleansing.